Everyday women are fighting for time with their children and their lovers. Most women that have an incredibly busy lifestyle, carry a large leather bound scheduler. Making time for you and your lover is vital to a long-lasting sexual relationship.
I don’t know why this is such a problematic issue, but most men and women have a really hard time being open and honest with each other about their sex life. Women, you need to talk with your man about what pleases him and what you really desire sexually. There should be no guessing or assuming, because that leads to mixed signals. Have him show you some sex videos of what he wants and you can do the same for hm.
Are You Open Minded And A Great Communicator?
You might be thinking, but doesn’t being open and communicating about your sex life, take away the mystery and fun? I don’t think being a detective in the bedroom is fun for anyone, but honestly talking about what you want sexually is going to make your sex life pure dynamite!
There is nothing wrong with asking your partner if he wants to have kinky sex. He may be scared to death, about asking you if he can get kinky. By letting him live out his dirty fantasies with you, you can then live out your intimate fantasies with him. I believe that millions of women have been programmed today, to assume that having the same old sex is what he wants, instead of communicating and developing intimacy.
There are some great manuals and guides online, that teach different sex secrets. Of course, using different types of sexual positions and playing the game Twister is a great idea. If you never have played the Twister game naked, you don’t know what you’re missing out on and you will find that you can contort your body, in ways you never imagined possible. The Twister game is the one with all the big round colored dots all over a plastic mat.
A Good Sex Guide Will Show You How To Have Multiple Orgasms
A good sex guide will teach you how to have multiple orgasms, by strengthening a certain muscle. Another area that women seem to miss is, using secret and persuasive hypnotic words. what you say and how you say it can drive your man wild! Here’s a real good one, most women do not know how to give great oral sex and guys know it!
I myself, had to learn how to improve in this area and make better eye contact while giving oral sex. Learning how to slowly strip off your clothes in front of your partner is a big turn on. Remember, if you’re not giving him the experience of being a sensual mistress, then he will begin looking elsewhere for a real one.
One of the best things you can do is plan a day off with your partner and buy a lot of herbal scented candles, massage oils, Jasmine essential oil, dirty sex DVD’s (the best you can find) and a very skimpy outfit, that makes your man’s eyes pop out of his head.
You can search around online and find some very provocative outfits. Don’t just buy lingerie at Victoria Secrets, because every woman shops there and what’s exciting about that? Picking your own very dirty sexy outfit online, will surprise your partner and will give you a sense of sexual individuality.